Your address book powers one of the most dangerous and invisible forms of surveillance capitalism. Here’s why it matters and what you can do about it.
Through its 'Upload Contacts' feature on Instagram, Facebook and WhatsApp, Meta harvests all the contacts in a users' address book including friends who never consented to share their data and others who aren't even on any Meta technologies.
If we have any sense of privacy, we should all be outraged.
How Does Meta's Contact Syncing Work?
We’ve all been asked, prompted, cajoled regularly to:
Many of us likely did this when we first hopped on Facebook and Instagram. After all, who wouldn’t want to find their friends?
What we didn’t know is that if we upload our contacts, Meta will, and I quote:
"Access and upload the names, phone numbers and email addresses in their address book on a daily basis to our servers.” This includes not only the users of Facebook, Insta, and Messenger, but also “other contacts who are not users or don’t have an account (i.e. Non-Users).”
Even creepier, when you upload contacts from your address book on Facebook, Meta states:
"We’ll use and securely store information about your contacts, including things like names and any nicknames; contact photo; phone numbers and other contact or related information you may have added like relation or profession; as well as data on your phone about those contacts."
What?!!! I know, right?
Why is uploading contacts to Meta dangerous?
This privacy invasion transforms your personal network into a tool for social mapping, shadow profiles, and behavioral nudging. Meta captures your data to shape what you see, what you click, and even what you think is normal.
Meta then combines your contact list with everyone else’s to:
1. Build a social map and predict behavior
Social mapping helps Meta predict who you are, where you go and what you value. Meta collects metadata from your contacts, messages, location clues, photo tags, and mutual connections to draw a detailed picture of who you know, how close you are to them, how often and in what ways you interact, and where you overlap socially, geographically and behaviorally. Meta uses this information to cluster you into interest groups and suggest friends, ads, events and political content tailored to the values of your network.
2. Create “shadow profiles” of non users
Even if you never use Facebook, Instagram or WhatsApp, you might be mapped because someone else uploaded your information when they synced their contacts. That’s how “shadow profiles” are created. Meta builds a behind-the-scenes profile with non-users’ name and contact details, connections to others, tags in photos, and location patterns.
3. Micro-target, political nudge and manipulate
By knowing who you know and who influences you, Meta can show you ads based on someone else’s activity, tailor content to stir emotion in a group (this is especially true with political manipulation), and suggest friend groups or trends that nudge you without you even realizing it.
Maybe you don't care about a sneaker ad here or there, but Meta uses the details of our contacts to influence beliefs, emotions, and votes.
Are you as horrified as me? If so, take action. If not, please still take action. It's not fair to upload other people's contact information without their consent.
What you can do NOW
✅ Your privacy secured:
Check if you are in Meta's Address Database and delete your own contact information.
Find out if Meta has your contact information in their address database and request deletion via Meta Contact Removal Tool. You can't do this from an app on your phone but must go online through a browser on your desktop computer or laptop. The simplest way is to first sign in to your Facebook or Instagram account on the browser, then click the Meta Contact Removal Tool.
✅ Respect the privacy of others:
Remove your address book's contact list from Meta.
Meta is quite the beast to wrestle with, and I strongly suggest you head to "Data Monger Marsh" in Shield Up! Stop the Snoop to stop Meta from collecting the contacts in your address book and to disable contact sync on Facebook and Instagram. You can also watch this video from Topsy Turvy: Meta explaining how here.
✅ Share this blog
Protect your friends & family from hidden data collection! Forward this blog post onto others. Most people don’t realize they’re exposing friends and family when they sync contacts.
Don't give Meta data on people who have never agreed to their information being stored, tracked, or aggregated. Stop the Sync. It’s not fair to you, to me, or for that matter, to anyone
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